Category Archives: family

Extensive Research as taught by Dad

Growing up wasn’t an easy phase for me. When I was fourteen, Dad left for Australia to keep up with his job in order to put bread and butter on the table. So in some sense, I didn’t manage to become very close to my Dad but he has always taught me invaluable skills that [...]
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Love in Another Language

I better type this out before bed tonight. I was just thinking while driving home just now: how my deterioration of the Chinese language has somewhat created an unconscious barrier between my mum and myself. Well, we can still communicate from day to day about very essential items. Although occasionally I struggle to create meaningful and [...]
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Family vs Finance as of 2008

At this very moment right now, I probably won’t understand the reason behind why my Dad’s so uptight about giving me the money that I need. But maybe 2 years down the road when I start to become more financially responsible, I’ll see the difference. As compared to my peers, I dare say that I’m considered [...]
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When your parents get older

The folks are in the living area watching Eurovision 2008 on the television. Dad’s just loving the catchy tunes and Mum’s falling asleep as usual. It’s funny how you watch your parents grow old together. While it’s scary to see how your future might be like, it’s also comforting to know they’re going to be [...]
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"you have to see…"

If my family life was made into a drama series, I would be the young 20something year old son who want to want to be an entrepreneur doing cool and new fun stuff as a source of income. And my dad would be like the wise old man, who’s the father of that son, and has [...]
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The Final Obstacle for The Wheel

hey dad, when are you getting the insurance for me?cos i need the car this Sunday. why you need the car? cos i need to go church early this Sunday. are you free this Saturday? huh? how are you going to get the insurance done within one day? are you free or not? you have to pass a test. huh? what [...]
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the woman’s worth

I saw this from a friend’s blog (yes glori, i read your blog *gasp!*). And i thought that it was very encouraging (from a girl’s point of view), and it really reminds me to treat a girl like a girl (which we men usually forget). I dedicate this to my mum cos she really fits [...]
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Tuan Yuan

Reunion dinners on Chinese New Year’s eve has become more meaningful of late. Although I’m the eldest of all my cousins from my maternal side, it’s interesting to find out how the kids are doing especially since we don’t meet very often throughout the year. Back in my time, sweets and candies would attract my sister and [...]
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who are you, my country?

the fact that national day songs are still remembered by me means that Singapore has done a great job in her propraganda agendas instilling pride and nationalism in me. good job Singapore! i’m proud to be one of you. i’m serious.
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un-ransomed

In my life, i have screwed up enough times to cost my father, financially. Although he knows i will never be able to pay him back (maybe even with my life at the moment), my little gesture of giving him some of my salary goes a long way. I hope he knows i work hard to [...]
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